Comments on: What are attachment styles? How do they form? https://bozhenaevanstherapy.com/what-are-attachment-styles/ BE Therapy | Bozhena Evans LCSW Tue, 05 May 2026 11:33:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW https://bozhenaevanstherapy.com/what-are-attachment-styles/#comment-14 Tue, 05 May 2026 11:33:35 +0000 https://bozhenaevanstherapy.com/?p=394#comment-14 […] good news, as Fern points out, is that attachment styles are not fixed. She describes earned secure attachment — the process by which adults, often […]

]]> By: Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy https://bozhenaevanstherapy.com/what-are-attachment-styles/#comment-10 Fri, 24 Apr 2026 01:35:24 +0000 https://bozhenaevanstherapy.com/?p=394#comment-10 […] Attachment theory helps us understand this well. When a child cannot trust that a caregiver will be reliably responsive, they develop what are called insecure attachment strategies — and one of the most common is hypervigilance toward others’ needs. It is the relational equivalent of keeping one eye on the storm at all times. It works. Until it doesn’t. […]

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