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Comment on Esther Perel, the couples & sex therapy guru of our generation by Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW

Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:35:48 +0000

[…] Esther Perel, whose work I deeply admire, captures this well: we ask more of our romantic relationships today than any previous generation ever has. We want a partner who is our best friend, our co-parent, our intellectual equal, our erotic adventure, our emotional safe harbor. That is an enormous ask — and it strains every kind of relationship, regardless of how many people are in it. […]

Comment on How Well is Marriage Working for Modern Couples? by Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW

Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:34:40 +0000

[…] your relationship is monogamous, polyamorous, or somewhere in the vast and nuanced space between — the same things matter. Honesty. Curiosity. […]

Comment on What are attachment styles? How do they form? by Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW

Is ENM Right For Your Relationship? | Bozhena Evans, LCSW — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:33:35 +0000

[…] good news, as Fern points out, is that attachment styles are not fixed. She describes earned secure attachment — the process by which adults, often […]

Comment on Esther Perel, the couples & sex therapy guru of our generation by "Why Does My Husband Spend More Time With His Friends?"

"Why Does My Husband Spend More Time With His Friends?" — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:31:22 +0000

[…] outside of the relationship. It is not a threat to love — it is often what keeps love alive. As Esther Perel has written, desire requires distance. We are most drawn to our partners when we see them as fully […]

Comment on Relationship Anxiety: From early confidence to growing concerns by Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy

Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:18:58 +0000

[…] ready to explore what it would feel like to live with more authenticity, less anxiety, and deeper relational security, I would love to work with […]

Comment on How Invisible Labor Affects Relationships — And What to Do About It by The Work No One Sees: How the Mental Load Is Quietly Reshaping Your Relationship – Thought Fill

Mon, 27 Apr 2026 14:27:05 +0000

[…] and researchers sometimes call it invisible labor, cognitive labor, or emotional labor, though it encompasses all three. It is the planning behind […]

Comment on What are attachment styles? How do they form? by Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy

Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy — Fri, 24 Apr 2026 01:35:24 +0000

[…] Attachment theory helps us understand this well. When a child cannot trust that a caregiver will be reliably responsive, they develop what are called insecure attachment strategies — and one of the most common is hypervigilance toward others’ needs. It is the relational equivalent of keeping one eye on the storm at all times. It works. Until it doesn’t. […]

Comment on Couples Counseling in Denver to Rebuild Your Relationship by Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy

Living For Others? Understanding People Pleasing | BE Therapy — Fri, 24 Apr 2026 01:29:07 +0000

[…] Bozhena Evans, LCSW · Therapist & Couples Counselor · Denver, […]

Comment on We Are Happier When We Are Not Alone by Making Time for FUN - Bozhena Evans Therapy

Making Time for FUN - Bozhena Evans Therapy — Wed, 11 Feb 2026 22:30:10 +0000

[…] kind of fun should be reserved for the couple only. It is important for partners to maintain their connectedness and attraction even in the midst of family […]

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Wed, 11 Feb 2026 22:20:29 +0000

[…] evening and a reminder of how good it feels to have a neighborhood community. Any community and connections we can cultivate will keep us happier and more […]